your
neighbour as yourself is bad news because:
You
cannot love your neighbour as yourself and there is nothing to be ashamed of for that is
the way we are. Everything you do
you do it for yourself even when you hate doing it for you want to do it more than
not want to. So when you do good for
another person it is not because you value them. You value the feelings that make you help them. You can’t do good for another person unless
it is going to please yourself. I mean when you like something you mean you
find your own fulfilment in it. Liking
means finding satisfaction so when you like a person you are not valuing that
person but how they make you feel. So
you love yourself in the sense that you value yourself alone but you love your
neighbour in the sense that you like your neighbour. Love is liking. But you
do not value your neighbour as yourself for you cannot and you do not like your
neighbour as yourself either.
You
are called selfish or too self-loving when you are ungrateful for that will
harm yourself which is a strange kind of selfishness. Real selfishness is what is best for yourself and for
others. Even when we act as if we are
concerned for others and not ourselves we are concerned just for
ourselves. Everything you do is done only for
self-love. For
example, when you help a sick stranger it is because you, you
believe in it and want to believe in it and not for them. It cannot
be for any other reason. It is not
the stranger you value but yourself but in the broad sense of love which is
helping others you do love them which is not what the commandment means. People want you to help them because you
like to and not because you feel you ought to.
We want each other to practice this kind of self-centredness.
You should not love your neighbour as
yourself but love yourself through your neighbour for there is no need to
demean yourself by loving your neighbour as yourself. This means enjoying seeing others happy. This does not mean you do evil but it means
you live the same way as a person who says you must love your neighbour as
yourself does but the only difference will be is that you have the honesty not
to pretend you are being unselfish.
Love
your neighbour as yourself is hypocrisy.
Religion is founded on this insincerity. All who preach religion are behind the evil that the people who
listen to them do because they create an evil system that can’t make them
better people though they say it can.
Good happens in spite of faith and not because of it. If you give a psychopath a pill that won’t
help him or that shouldn’t then you are as much the cause of any crime he
commits as he is even though you didn’t tell him to commit it. Religion is too silly for
people not to notice and so it is undoubtedly a wilful con.
The
fact that God says in the Bible he commanded love of neighbour as oneself
through Moses and Jesus Christ is enough to condemn the commandment. Say the rule is right. How could God command what should command
itself? I mean if it is good then he
has no need to command it at all but just to draw our attention to it and its
rightness. A commanding God means one
thing: that human beings are dirt and have no right to expect any proper
treatment from God and that they should be dominated by an interfering divine
dictator and by religious leaders who represent him. Religion means war and that people should not think for
themselves and it shows that religion dislikes people and is two-faced when it
seems friendly for if you liked people you would trust them and not be trying
to give them a God who issues orders to keep them in line.
Jesus who made this law of so-called
love said it was related to and like the command to love God with all your
heart and so Christianity has always taught that the two go together. In other words, the stronger your faith in
God the more you love your neighbour.
This accuses doubters and atheists of being trouble and of being
undesirable people. It opposes the
right to have and express your own opinion.
It is pro-discrimination.
Loving as yourself implies that if you
have one neighbour you should share half your love for you and half for the
neighbour so it must be a sin to treat yourself, which is loving only yourself,
for you must involve him. Therefore the
more people you have to serve the less you should serve yourself and you should
only serve yourself like go to the doctor for medical help when you are ill so
that you can help others better. The
more neighbours you serve the better so the commandment soon puts the loving
yourself totally off the picture. Most
people take love your neighbour as yourself to mean you care for your
neighbour’s feeling as much as your own.
But what if the neighbour has a mental illness that makes him need you
as a slave and which will afflict him horribly if you don’t comply with his
every wish? Most people will say you
should still have your own life but it shows the duplicity and fake charm of
the love neighbour as yourself doctrine.
Love your neighbour as yourself in
practice means you love your neighbour more than yourself because since you
cannot judge others like you judge yourself it means you can let them
manipulate you for to treat them fairly means you have to be more trusting of
them than you are of yourself.
Some people believe that casting
spells for their neighbours is loving them as themselves! You can be sure that Jesus would disagree
with this so what he meant by loving your neighbour was treating your neighbour
as Jesus would treat her. That is, he
wants neighbours treated according to his rules so rather than respecting your
neighbour you end up imposing your faith system on their lives. It is love to prevent your neighbour having
access to heretical books for somebody has to be displeased in cases of
conflict and Jesus who comes first will be unhappy if you don’t do it his way
as will his Church be. Jesus told the
unfortunate ordinary people he preached to that if their Roman persecutors
forced them to carry their packs one mile for them to generously carry it a second
mile (Matthew 5:41). To be so kind to
hardened killers who hate you and your people and who will laugh at you is
certainly not loving yourself as much as them.
You could have found better things to do, like helping decent people,
than go an extra mile. Jesus would have
told you to do what they ask but no more but to be pleasant if he had really
believed in love neighbour as yourself.
Loving your neighbour as yourself is
impossible for you love the perception you have created of your neighbour as yourself
not your neighbour. Jesus was
commanding the impossible to break us down.
He was commanding that we blind ourselves just because he said so. The commandment is pro-deception and a load
of whitewash.
To love your neighbour as yourself you
would have to love the sinner and hate the sin – and we are supposed to be all
sinners. But you cannot do this any
more than you can love your eyes and hate your sight. To say John’s painting is bad is to say John is a bad
artist. So you cannot separate the sin
from the sinner and it is a lie to say you can. The person who says you have done wrong is saying you are bad as
a person and that is that and they wouldn’t be saying it unless they thought
you did it deliberately. So loving your
neighbour as yourself is just a Christian scam for money, influence and power.
It
implies we must forgive each other.
Forgiveness condemns the sin and then it treats it as if it was nothing
by letting the sinner off. So it is
saying it is bad and it is not bad and has the same results as rewarding the
sin. The fact that we can’t punish
everybody is no excuse for forgiving for if you can’t punish you can’t but
forgiving goes further. It is best to
hold that instead of forgiving people we should see them as victims of evil
rather than the causes of evil for there is no such thing as free will.
Jesus believed that love is
voluntary. That is, you do it of your
own free will and are not programmed by causes. But what you are most sure of comes before anything else. I am more sure pain is real than that free
will is real for I could be programmed to wrongly think I’m free but I cannot
doubt that I suffer when I suffer.
Therefore for Jesus Christ to come along and suggest that I should
accuse other people of freely causing human suffering by causing it of their
own free will is Jesus asking for us to make trouble.
Let
those who are disturbed by this teaching realise that they practice it
anyway. They just need to see it.